I was invited to attend Pride's meeting on spirituality. For those of you who don't know, ISU Pride is our school's student group devoted to LGBT students and their allies. Pride used
this definition of wellness for the meeting, and handed everyone a "Wellness Wheel."
Pride felt that many of these aspects, such as social and intellectual, are taken care of pretty well by ISU, but that perhaps a person's spirituality can be overlooked. Since several religions, a path many people use to become spiritual, are less than friendly to the LGBT community, we talked about spirituality from a less religious and more personal perspective. How do you connect to your fellow students? What makes you feel refreshed and relaxed? What makes you feel like you've helped someone? These were the sort of things we focused on as a way to express our spirituality.
We started out with this video, which set the tone for the evening: finding things in common, and thus, finding connections with other people.
I then talked about my own spirituality as an atheist. I mentioned how I think it's amazing that, rather than being created to do a certain job, humans train themselves to do what needs to be done. Whether it's building someone a house, learning all one needs to learn to become a doctor, or risking your life as a police officer to keep your town safe, people rise up all the time to help their community. To me, making sacrifices and working hard to help other people because of compassion is much more impressive than if someone had been created specifically to do something.
We opened up discussion, and others shared their own experiences. Some people had found pride in teaching, some had found peace in their church. Some felt spiritual spending time with their loved ones, while some felt spiritual sitting alone under a night sky. While no two definitions were the same, any time someone spoke, you'd hear at least a few other people say they could relate. Just in sharing how we connect with others, we made connections with the people in the room! I think it's safe to say, it was a very positive experience for everyone involved.
I was thrilled to be a part of this really cool event, and look forward to doing more with Pride in the future!